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Why Happiness Comes From Being Your Higher Self

Have you ever worn different masks in front of different people to present a different version of yourself?

We all surely have if we were honest enough. And that's totally okay, sometimes situations require you to summon different kinds of personalities, energy or resourceful state in order to produce the best outcome.

However, if you let the standards of society, the status quo of culture and the "what's weird or not" kind of majority thinking to influence you to become who you are, then you're not living your own true life.

You are just surviving like a Star Wars clone, drone or a R2-D2 robot.

While we have to abide by the laws set out by our society, we don't have to listen to its guidelines all the time.

It will be way happier and free to define the lifestyle you want to have and the way you want live. No one ever stands out by being the same as everyone else and standing out as an individual will NOT get you killed.

When you make the decision to live life as you see fit, you will find that you'll become much more carefree.

Your parents wanted you to be a doctor and they sent you to medical school. But you have always wanted to do something else. What usually happens? You either stick with the 6-year degree and hate what you do OR you move on to unleash your entrepreneurial spirit and start a business that's more fulfilling.

How can you find out what is going to make you happy? This is easy.

Next time you find yourself daydreaming, try to pay attention to what it is you were daydreaming about. If the same thing comes up frequently, this is a huge hint from the Universe as to how you want to live.

This doesn't just work for your career. It can be for any aspect of your life.

If you continually think about areas of your life that seem empty, ask yourself what it would take to fill that hollow feeling, inner hunger and emptiness. That is what you want to focus on.

As I have always emphasized, taking huge imperfect action is always the solution to leading a more rewarding, passionate, fulfilling life.

You will be happier as will the people in your life. When you vibe with such positive energy, people around you will notice and be influenced to do the same.

Be okay with the fact that some people close to you will try to give you unsolicited advice as to what is best for you.

Very often, they do it out of love and fear.

They love you so they want you do what seems to them the best for you so you don't get hurt. But they are also scared that if you don't listen to their "advice", you'll succeed and they will lose you.

Just remember that it's your life and you are the only one that can live it.

There will be also people who want you fail because if you are successful, you take away their excuses and make them look bad.

Just ignore these negativity voices. Focus on your own thing. Think about the long-term benefits you will get when you live life on your terms rather than theirs.

Nothing will change until you take massive imperfect action towards living your own life, one on your own terms, that's best for your highest self.

You will be stuck living on the expectations of others and you will look back on your life when you are older and wonder why you didn't do the things you always wanted to do.

The choice is now yours. How will you choose?

Learning Wisdom From Our Weaknesses

The most important lessons in life that we need to learn are the results of our poor decisions. Although time and experience are the best teachers but we are also tormented by the experiences that we have in our lives such as our sacrifices, suffering, agony and the ordeals that we have been through.

To avoid repeating the mistakes we did, we need to learn from them and develop the sense to make good decisions and choices. Good judgment develops only when we truly learn from our mistakes. However, many people keep repeating the same mistakes before learning their lessons because as they say, they are just humans who are subject to commit mistakes.

Our weaknesses in life can be turned into our strengths if we immediately acknowledge and recognize the fact that we messed up and learn from them. Our good or bad experiences help us learn better judgments in life. Yet, too many people are in denial and place the blame on others without realizing that the minute they take responsibility of their action is when the learning process begins.

Aside from learning from our own experience, we can also learn valuable lessons from the experience of others. It allows us to observe behaviors from a different perspective. When we recognize our mistake and prevent it from happening again, we are therefore learning.

The lessons depend upon the way we interpret our errors. If we keep on repeating the same patterns, how can we ever expect our results to differ? It is better to face the mistake than to escape from it because it cannot be solved by itself. Accepting our mistakes and working toward understanding them promotes personal progress. It is normal to be ashamed of what we have done but we cannot hide it forever. The truth will set us free.

In quickly identifying our mistakes and altering behavior accordingly requires less time and energy than denying mistakes. However, acknowledgement of mistakes requires belief in the idea that perfection is not possible. Analyzing our mistakes rather than quantifying them prevents us from making excuses for our errors.

In order to build an opportunity for conceding our mistakes, we need to stay away from the mistake. It is easier to analyze our mistakes especially when we talk to others which can help people to sort out comments or criticisms after a mistake is made. Despite the human's propensity to avoid mistakes, timely acknowledgement is one of the best ways to prevent them from repeating.

At What Point Did You Decide That You Aren't Good Enough? (By Hollie Belle)

Something happens to us in our childhood. It can be something somebody says. Other times it can be what you deduce about a situation. Either way, we decide that we aren't good enough. We aren't worthy of love and therefore we aren't worthy of all the beautiful things life has to offer.

We are taught that the world is not a safe place. It is hostile and you can't count on anyone. Everyone is out to hurt you or take something from you. It is this belief that keeps us from living the life of our dreams and living small.

What happened to you?

Growing up, my mum was constantly telling us how lucky we were. How we had a roof over our heads, food on the table and parents that loved us. Somehow, this did not fill my heart with gratitude but mostly filled me with guilt. I felt guilty that I had all these wonderful things and no appreciation for them.

My mum had lost her parents when she was 5 years old and so to her, we were extremely fortunate to have everything we had. My parents grew up in a third world country and made a lot of sacrifices for us so that we may have the best of everything. They wanted us to have all the amazing things they never had in their childhood.

And with all that, I thought my mum didn't love me.

My sister was born when I was 5 years old and somehow when she was born, I decided that my mum no longer loved me. I have lived most of my life feeling that I wasn't good enough for my mum to love me. I believed that love can be taken away. That it is not something you can rely on.

Sometimes, grown-ups can say something that makes you doubt yourself. My first piano teacher told me that because I was 10 years old, I could never be a concert pianist. I believed her and felt sad that I had not started earlier. In time, I have met others that began learning piano at the same age and they had no problems becoming concert pianists.

Funny, because to another person, that comment might have been exactly what they needed to prove that they could. Some of us accept defeat, whilst others use the same information to prove them wrong. Everything happens for a reason. Make no mistake.

You are not reading this by accident.

You are reading this because there is a message here for you. There is something here that you need to hear. Did you misinterpret the words or the actions of an adult when you were a child? Think about this carefully. The answer lies within you.

The Promise of Human Will

Human will is the strongest and most powerful force existing in humans; it rises as a natural instinct that propels us beyond what seems possible. From the newborn baby born far too early measuring the length of our finger yet survives to the 33 miners who emerged from the bowels of the earth 69 days after being buried alive we are witness to the power within that drives us to survive, to win. Stories of heroes and heroic deeds are filled with the sheer power of the human will. Ordinary people in everyday life fight battles of terminal illness and obstacles that are miraculously won through sheer willpower. It is a raging fire that burns within.

Is this the same will we exercise in our daily life; the one that sets goals, recognizes dreams that are infused with faith, those that become hopes? It isn't; those that require what appear to be beyond possibility spring from a much deeper place within us. This kind of human will exists at soul level where we are connected with our higher self, our Creator, who infuses the impossible task before us with a deeper will to press on, and never give up. It arrives without notice in the blink of an eye many times, when a split second may mean the difference between life and death. It is a command that tells us to persevere infused with a sense of knowing the right action to do so, the one where miracles become reality. It really is super human will. But how do we ignite that, how do we communicate with that part of ourselves?

Few have grown to adulthood without the instructions to open this magic door. It is called 'Thy will, not mine.' It sounds so simple if you discount the force behind our own will which is powerful beyond belief. It takes a different kind of miracle for us to set aside our own will and listen to for the instructions from a place we cannot define. It means letting go of self-control and trusting that which we cannot see... the very definition of faith.

Why does it seem so easy to those who have accomplished super human feats? Because they were faced with a situation where they had already lost control; they had used all the typical methods to solve the problem and finally gave up. It is the way of humans, but it doesn't have to be so. We can tap into this far more powerful source any time we face any situation. It requires us to let go of any attachment to whether our own decision is the best one and simply waiting for the confirmation or the new idea that may seem to be a long shot but is always the best possible solution. It comes from instinct, or a sense of knowing. This is the magic of tapping into the real promise of human will.

10 Reasons to Keep a Gratitude Journal (By Mujiba Salaam Parker )

Below are 10 reasons why you should keep a gratitude journal:

1. Positive attitude and happier

When you are grateful you feel more optimistic about life in general because you are naturally looking for the good in every experience. Also, research by Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., a leading expert on gratitude, shows that gratitude reduces toxic emotions, such as envy, resentment, frustration, and regret. This results in less depression and thereby increases happiness and joy.

According to, in a study of participants who kept a gratitude journal over time, the percentage of increase in happiness rose by 150% in only 5 months. The Greater Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life project conducted by researchers at the University of California at Berkley and Davis discovered that grateful people feel less lonely and isolated. Lastly, according to, a 2003 study found that people who wrote about things they were grateful for were more optimistic and reported feeling better about themselves.

2. Good for your health

A team of researchers, led by Deepak Chopra and Alex Wood, examined a group of individuals with Stage B asymptomatic heart failure and determined that gratitude has an important role in spiritual well-being. More specifically, the researchers documented that an attitude of gratitude related to better mood and sleep, less fatigue, more self-efficacy, and lower cellular inflammation. In 2012, a study published in Personality and Individual Differences indicated that grateful people are more likely to take care of their health, exercise more often, and are more likely to attend regular check-ups with their doctors.

3. Helps advance your career

Expressing gratitude has been found to improve work performance. Researchers at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania conducted a study on how workers who received a pep talk and gratitude from their manager did more work than those who did not. So treating employees nicely with appreciation is not only a good thing to do, it will increase productivity. Gratitude helps people network, increases decision-making capabilities, and helps in getting new mentors and protégés. As such, being grateful helps you achieve your career goals and makes your workplace more friendly and enjoyable. Another study found that expressing thanks to your employees fosters a strong sense of self-worth and confidence. The same study further revealed a ripple effect of gratitude leading to increased trust amongst colleagues and more initiative to help each other at work.

4. Strengthens your relationship with God

In research done by Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D. and his colleagues, those who regularly attend religious services and engage in religious activities such as prayer or reading religious materials were found to be grateful. As I have researched, multiple religions have numerous scriptures indicating how we should be more grateful to God for everything and by doing so, we will have a more rewarding life. The fact that so many scriptures are written about gratitude in relation to God suggests that being grateful must be very important. Being more grateful to God, draws us closer to Him as we understand that He is the source of our blessings. This causes God to reciprocate, as stated in the Bible in James 4:8, "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you." By acknowledging and thanking Him for His gifts and mercy, we strengthen our relationship with God.

5. Enhances empathy

A 2006 study in the journal Psychological Science found that people who expressed more gratitude were also more likely to help out others. A 2012 study by the University of Kentucky linked gratitude to greater empathy and lower aggression. In fact, the study participants with higher levels of gratitude behaved in a pro-social manner even when others behaved less kind.

6. You make friends more easily

Keeping a gratitude journal has been found to make you more likely to help others and to offer them emotional support. A 2014 study published in the journal Emotion revealed that students showing gratitude by writing and sending a note to a new mentor resulted in the mentor sharing their personal information with the students. These studies support that being grateful makes you more friendly and open to receive new friendships.

7. Improves self-esteem

In 2014, researchers who published a study in the Journal of Applied Sports Psychology found that gratitude increased self-esteem in athletes, which is key to optimal performance. Also, other studies have found that gratitude reduces social comparisons, and that grateful people appreciate the success of others. As mentioned earlier, gratitude reduces envy and resentment. Therefore, it correlates that grateful people would tend to not compare themselves to others.

8. Helps you recover from trauma

Gratitude has been shown to play a major role in overcoming trauma. For example, a 2006 study found that Vietnam War Veterans with high gratitude levels had lower rates of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Another study linked gratitude with fostering resilience for survivors of the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks. Being grateful for surviving the negative experiences helps you to move forward with a positive attitude.

9. You have better memories

The very nature of gratitude instills positivity in how we interpret various life experiences. As we keep a gratitude journal, we are creating a written record of these reflections. According to Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., one reason to keep a gratitude journal is to have a legacy gift for someone or yourself, to be able to look back at the source of the goodness in your life many years later.

10. You have better romantic relationships

A 2015 University of Georgia study found that saying thank you more often to and feeling appreciated by your spouse causes partners to feel closer, more committed, and have a greater mutual relationship satisfaction. And for couples who had financial and other problems, gratitude can actually reverse negative effects of conflict and promote positive marital outcomes. The study also discovered that having gratitude for a partner and receiving gratitude from one's partner results in better romantic relationships. A different study also reported that gratitude has lasting effects as the partners were more responsive to the other's needs, even up to nine months later.

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If You Think You Are Superior To Others Or Inferior To Others, Either Way You Have A Problem (By Hollie Belle)

Growing up we were never told that we were beautiful because my parents believed that this would create vanity. So, when I had my first crush and this boy wasn't interested, I just assumed that it was because I was ugly. I look at my 4-year-old daughter now and I feel that it would break my heart to ever know that she thinks she is ugly because she is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.

Her smile and when her eyes light up with excitement. That high-pitched giggle and just her little voice. Beautiful! I believe that vanity has to do with believing that you are better than others because of how you look. You feel that you have an advantage over others because of your exterior and are therefore superior.

If you think you are superior or you are inferior, either way, you have a problem.

Here are the facts. If you think you are inferior, you believe you are not as good as everybody else. In essence, you aren't good enough and you just don't measure up. You aren't as smart as others, as good-looking as others, or you just can't do what other people do. This is what you have decided in your head. So you exclude yourself from certain groups because you don't fit in there.

Now here is where I'm going to do your head in. When people feel superior to others, they are saying they are too good to be in your presence. They are too smart to talk to you, too good-looking to be seen with the likes of you, too good to waste time being in your presence. They are excluding themselves from you. They don't belong in your group.

Each extreme is an exclusive club!

Both groups are full of judgment. When you are at peace with who you are, you understand that you are part of all and that it is all a part of you. We are all things. Happy and sad. Patience and intolerance. Beautiful and ugly. We all have the capacity to love or hate. What may seem like the most beautiful thing to one person, may leave another person scratching their head wondering if they are even looking at the same thing. Has that ever happened to you?

Judgment is what divides. When you decide that something is ugly or you decide that it is wrong. You know, to some people, having their dogs inside the house is wrong. To others having their dogs outside is wrong. Some people allow their dogs on the couch, others set the boundaries there. This is just an example of how we go about every day deciding that this is right and this is wrong.

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Who Is Choosing Your Destiny?

Suppose you want a pet and you have free will to choose one. Typically, you start an elimination process:

  • 'I could have X but it eats too much and I don't have that much money to buy the food, so I guess I just won't "choose" it.' Note: You could start earning more money but you don't have free time for a second job, or so you rationalize to yourself.
  • 'I could have Y but it is too dirty and I don't have the time to clean, so I won't have it.' Note: You can hire a cleaner but you would have to pay and you don't earn enough money, so you are at a dead end here as well.
  • 'I could have Z, but I would have to travel to Antarctica to bring it home and I have no time, nor money to do that, so I won't have Z either.' Note: You could ask for a loan or for someone to take a trip to Antarctica, but you have a belief that you should never ask for help, so you simply don't do that.

In the end, you "choose" Q - the only thing you can ever "choose" because it is the option that requires neither time, nor money, nor asking for help and thus fits perfectly your beliefs.
Did you exercise free will when you chose your pet? Of course not! Your choice was made by your conditioning and your perception of your own limitations. Anyone who knows you well enough could have predicted your "free will" choice.

But wait, it gets worse! If we live in a world of infinite potential, why did you not consider a wider variety of options to "choose" from? Why not include the possibility of having a robot as a pet? Or when you consider job offers, why don't you think about moving to another country, or starting your own company, or setting up a risky investment plan which could allow you to live off passive income for the rest of your life? I am sure some of these options are quite appealing, right? You would have liked them, but... Some of them (although they exist) you don't even see, let along take them into account when making your "free will" choice. Why? Because we all see the world from our limited perspective and our actions are determined by our limited beliefs. They have nothing to do with free will. They are pre-programmed choices. It takes breaking through our own limitations in order to even start thinking outside of the box. Only then can we start contemplating the possibility of exercising free will.